Gregory D. Shera

Makes love a game- and he is the only winner.

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Makes a game out of breaking womens hearts for entertainment. 
Claims he is avenging hearts he is sure they broke.
Admits that he won't ever stop.

Birthday 12/1980

Height/Weight: 5 feet 3 inches tall/ 160-180 lbs


Smokes?
       yes, but ONLY Marlboro Reds

Drinks?
   Not usually, but has been lately
Kids?
  Yes, two daughters, Tinka (6) and Kiersa (8)

Criminal past?
Yes. Is booked into jail at least once a year. Very short tempered, gets into fights often. Suspended License (10 years, next time he gets pulled over, its a felony and lifetime suspension)

Employed?
Sporadically. Resents that half his check is gone before he gets it (over 20,000 in arrears for child support) Jobs generally last around 6 months, sometimes a year.

Seen on:
PlentyofFish.com
Online Handles:
V4p0ro0o, V4p0r, GregS(random numbers) GregShera (yahoo ID)

This was created on 10/13/2010..

I have just learned that my fiancé is in fact cheating on me. But he has cheated on all of his women. He also has not had a relationship last LONGER than 3 years.. I am the first one who made it over 2.. Anyway. I found his new girlfriends myspace and sent her this message. I am posting it online for posterities sake as his EX before me also posted their breakup story online... unfortunately she forgot to include his last name, so I didn't find it until I had already fallen for him and I hadn't yet realized that he was a self-admitted habitual cheater. So hopefully the new 'chicks' will find this and be able to save themselves from the same fate.. and their children. Most of the women he picks up are overweight single mothers. Generally they have low self esteem or a difficult family life or comes from a broken home. Apparently we are the easiest to manipulate and thats all his game really is. Manipulation. 
He smooth talks his way into your heart, knowing exactly what to say and when- he dumps them as soon as he thinks you love him. He makes a game of this and does 3, 4, sometimes even 5 at a time. These are different women than his girlfriends though. He has only had 4 serious girlfriends, however the number of women he's played with is at least 10 times that number.. He calls the ones he plays with his chicks (not his girlfriends) and they are referred to by employment for example, one of his recent ones was Chef Chick, there was also Nurse Chick, Baker Chick, and Unemployed Chick. 
When I found out, he just said he liked to flirt. I didn't agree with it, but went along with it, knowing it was a part of who he was and tried to love him for it. I realize that sounds pathetic, but My dad was the exact same way and it lead to my parents divorce, I didn't want to do that to my kids who had come to genuinely love him over the 3 years we were together (since the youngest was about 18 months old, so 3 very important years! Long enough that my kids thought of him as their dad and his family as theirs)
So the agreement was that he could flirt. Well... he took that one step further...

He was apparently took her on a date on the 12th

 

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Click Here to read OUR conversations on the 6th.
And she apparently had a blast! 

On the 6th, her update was " 'Alice' Starting to like this dating thing more!Mood: giggly  
Sounds like another date night to me....  Heres a snippet of OUR logs from the 6th ------->

Now I am just finding out out about this tonight. And I am done. So I sat down and wrote this out to the new girl, just to let her know what she is in for and hopefully she will want to confront him together.

My letter to his new girl 'Alice' (name has been changed)

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I just thought you might want to see this..
(After you click on the picture to make it bigger, press ctrl plus sign to zoom- it will get a little fuzzy but this is from last night-10/12/10)
 

Trust me girly, we are both better off without Greg. Let me know if your interested in confronting him together. He doesn't generally tell the truth unless there is another option.
I didn't find out that Greg enjoyed playing with women until after I hadt already been with him for about a year. When I found out, he explained he just liked flirting, I decided I could live with that. He did it out in the open and only occasionally.  
I found out about a month ago he was doing it again and we got into a fight because Greg was sneaking around with it. After I knew about it, we made up-  btw- he was actually born in 1980, he put the wrong year in to try and hide it from me, also why there was no picture until recently. Anyway, I just learned that he was actually meeting up...and possibly sleeping around? Sorry, I draw the line there. Even I am not that pathetic! lol!
Greg swore he was done with the chicks, and even deleted his POF account to prove it Oh- You were unemployed chick btw, congratulations on your new job!) But I don't see how I could ever trust him again, especially since he is obviously still talking to you. 
He called me right after work, going on about how he has never met anyone or slept with anyone. He don't know yet that I know you two are 'dating'. I am almost certain you are going to call and ask him about this right away, its only natural. But if you can resist that reaction, and your interested in confronting Greg with me, let me know. I plan on coming down and talking to him face to face tomorrow afternoon.
I hope this picture shows you the kind of man your playing with though and speaks louder than his words.  He and is an incredibly manipulative person once he has his hooks in ya.. well.. good luck. lol
~Andi~
P.S. I live here with his dad and am taking care of him while he has his heart surgeries. I am planning on staying here until the end of the semester. His family and I all think its best to not completely change the kids' lives overnight. But his whole family, especially his parents say the kids and I deserve better and are being incredibly supportive. They are wonderful and I am sure you will love them. 
Speaking of family- he actually has two daughters and is about 20,000 dollars in arrears, he has never had a job for more than 6 months  of course, if I was losing half my paychecks every week, I'm not sure I would be super committed to having a job either lol.  He has two daughters by the way, I am sure he told you about his oldest one, Kiersa. Her mother actually looks quite a bit like you, quite startling actually
His ex wife is also Wiccan- its amazing how he found two ex's in one package! Although I have to admit I am a little surprised that he picked another Wiccan- he would go on and on about how anyone over 16 who believes that stuff was a dumbass.. We actually talked about that yesterday on the phone.. Don't worry though, he thinks all religions are dumb, just feels that Wicca and Scientology are the dumbest.
He also has a daughter who is 6 now named Tinka but he has no interest in her and denies her (he claims the judge wouldn't allow him a paternity test, but according to her mother he admitted that there is no way he couldn't be her father) Oh- and he isnt an army vet.. that story he tells about the grenade launcher is all BS. He blew his fingers up screwing around with a flare gun. I can't think of any more of the lies he told me when we first started dating, but those are the major ones and ones he has told every time. 
Anyway- I think thats about it, I have been sitting here writing on this off an on since about 10 and I think I am done.. Good luck sweetie- I know new relationships are fun, and sometimes we lose our heads a bit so I am sure this isnt going to sway you one way or the other, But now you at least know what to expect- just look at it this way, your ahead of the game!
~Andi~
P.P.S. If you wanted to read his ex wife's (the Wiccan, not Kiersa's mom) story about THEIR breakup, Google the name V4p0ro0o (his online handle) and look for TOWANDA!  Link added here for convenience! http://www.43things.com/things/view/610853/towanda! It is the second posting, by hellkitten78


About an hour later I realized something! This is the second message.

This might make things a little easier- you can still zoom in on the picture (ctrl + not - btw!) but I am going to copy/paste too. Its not the whole conversation, just the part in the picture, but thats just because with the picture there you can verify that it is unaltered instead of someone just using wordpad to write whatever.. anyway-
gregshera (10/12/2010 12:43:17 AM): Yeah gnite..... Love you
Andi (10/12/2010 12:46:27 AM): Really?
gregshera (10/12/2010 12:47:03 AM): Yes really
Andi (10/12/2010 12:47:13 AM): love you too- gnight
Andi (10/12/2010 4:33:15 PM): Hey- how was work??
gregshera (10/12/2010 4:34:47 PM): Shitty...... Headed home now talk to ya then
Andi (10/12/2010 10:57:54 PM): Awww- I wanted to watch SOA with ya
Andi (10/12/2010 11:18:51 PM): Who is Kelsey?
gregshera (10/12/2010 11:19:41 PM): Chef chick.. She started texting me a few minutes ago
Andi (10/12/2010 11:20:21 PM): Well i guess he diddnt ruin her for ya either lol.. what did she have to say??
gregshera (10/12/2010 11:21:56 PM): Aparrently relaying what i say to him........ then aparrently to u so yeah she is gone lol
Andi (10/12/2010 11:23:24 PM): Your done or she is? lol
gregshera (10/12/2010 11:24:35 PM): I would still talk to her but im guessing that isnt an option lol...... Since she is aparrenty talking to dpuchebag
Andi (10/12/2010 11:25:23 PM): oh.. well maybe she dosnt care? Diddnt you say you two were just friends anyway?
gregshera (10/12/2010 11:26:08 PM): Yeah but i dont think she was aiming for friends lol.....
Andi (10/12/2010 11:26:20 PM): oh?
Andi (10/12/2010 11:29:05 PM): why ya say that???
I have a very strong suspicion he was with you between 5 and 1030ish when I talked to him.. he told me he was taking a nap and had just woke up when he called me. I know if I ask him though, he will just lie. Especially since this whole time he's swore up and down he wasn't meeting with the 'chicks' and I now know that was a lie.
I didn't send this to upset you, but as I am looking back on everything, I only wish what I knew now. I wouldn't be over 18,000 dollars in debt and virtually homeless because of him, but my kids got attached to him and loved him like their dad, I mean, as angry as I am with Greg, I am even more pissed off for them. He'd been around since my youngest was in diapers and once they find out, they are going to be absolutely torn. They were looking forward to when we got married and everyone became family for real. His family assures me that even after i move out, we will still get together and that makes it a little better, at least they won't have to lose everyone they had grown to love over the years, right? lol
Wow- its late and I need to be heading to bed. Good luck with everything and let me know if you wanted to confront him together..
~Andi~

update- 10/14